She's breaks all the rules, sleeping through the night, rolling early, entertaining herself more and more every day. So I've started breaking one for her.
I've become a closet co-sleeper.
Everything I've read tells me I shouldn't. They talk about SIDS, the possibility of rolling on her, acting like it's the equivalent of a plugged in hair dryer next to a full bathtub. But Munchie loves it, and I do, too.
We don't do it much, but this week it's become our new morning ritual. She goes to bed in the late evening (in a diaper one size up, which seems to help with keeping her dry all night and hence asleep), and wakes up for food every morning between 5 am and 5:30. We feed, we rock, but she just will not go back to sleep, not even if you turn off the light and rock her in the dark, or turn on the WombBear and leave her in the crib.
So instead, at 6 am, Smartie gets up for work, and Munchie and I curl up in the big people bed. She smiles, she kicks, she coos at her daddy until he leaves and turns off the light. Within three minutes she is back to sleep, curled up next to me, a pillow on one side to ensure she doesn't roll over. And she sleeps like a baby, of course.
I get almost another hour of sleep out of it. Smartie wakes us when he's changing his clothes, we have some more coos and smiles, and everyone is ready to get up for the day.
It probably hasn't been established as a permanent habit yet, so this weekend is the test. Can she co-sleep while daddy's still in bed, and do we even want to try? Or will someone have to sit up with her from 5 am on? And what happens Saturday night/Sunday morning when we stay at our first hotel for a family reunion in St. Cloud?
Consider this the Friday cliffhanger...




